Understanding...do we really understand or impose our understanding??

We started really well..our understanding was so great..we use to understand each and everything between us..the time was so awesome..i can't tell u...it was just great...we use to roam..we use to talk..n everything...there was nothing missing between us..he use to do everything for me..and I for him...we never gave chance to each other to complain...but as time passed..things started changing between us...we use to find things tough between us..we started fighting for every small things...started fighting for things which we use to like in each other...and as time passed, we just hated everything...we felt we are searching for things to fight on...n understanding which was best in our relationship is just missing....

Many of us have same stories to share....

But was that really UNDERSTANDING, when we started on??????/

Or was that just the way to impress each other??

Or was that the way to make place in each other's heart??

Or was that just flirting??

Or was that just the way to keep each other happy??

Or was that just the way relationships happen...??

But question is why we put so much effort in a relationship in starting..And if we put, then why are we not able to carry it for whole life..Or we start expecting the same from our partner....

There are endless questions regarding this...and endless answers to all such questions....

But are such RELATIONSHIPS or UNDERSTANDING FAKE ????