do we have a RIGHT to CRY??

We often keep crying for somethin or another in our life...We almost spends 90% of our life cryin for all what we dont have..N even our tears overcome our smiles..N we r not able to express our happiness completely atleast when we r happy..N even are not able to feel happy ourselves...Because hum log apni hi duniya ki problems main fase rehte hai, agar hum bahar ja kar auro ki problems dekhenge  to..We'll find that our problems are nothing..Here is a small experience of one of my friends..Which taught me that we dont have any right to cry....

She once went to a slum area for some survey as a part of her college assignment...The slum we all know how it is..We people just cant stand over there..Its so filthy n unhygienic...There she went inside one jhuggi..It was a small room of almost 8*6..N it was their bedroom cum kitchen cum everything...No furniture, no almirah, nothin other than a single mat over which they all sleep..They were sooo poor..The family consisted of 1 man n his 2 children..Even her wife was not there...Its really bad to see people living like this..My friend entered inside n said namaste..The man was shocked n happy to see someone like this to come to their jhuggi..He was expectin her to be some govt servant for their help..But she was there for her work..The man put a bucket upside down for her to sit..Even when she was ready to sit on floor..N the man asked her for tea..N was calling her betti..N most important the man had courage to smile..N his smile taught my friend if people have courage to smile in such unwanted  conditions..than why do we cry??N if we cry we are doing injustice to such people..Because ours condition is much more better than those people..

So, do we a have right to cry???

Im a flirt, really??

..Flirt..Flirt..Flirt..This is what i hear from everyone around me..N still hearing..Girls boys n everyone..Even my girlfriends says im flirt..But im a flirt, really???

This questions just makes me lost in my thoughts..Thoughts to which i dont have an answer..But how can i know the answer when i dont know what flirtin means..

My mom says im a flirt bcoz i talk to so many girls..Dont I have right to have a female friend..Or should i get inspired by dostana or fashion..Even that relation is also not considered good...Maybe i will never b able to get married if I enter into some relation like that..My female friends says im flirt by the way I talk to them..the way I pamper them..cant I pamper them as a friend??cant I talk in that way to see smile on their face??N if they dont like flirtin then why the hell do they talk to me??on the other hand they always asks me to teach them how to flirt..N I always have one answer..I dont know how to flirt...N this is the truth..My male friends call me flirt..Bcoz wherever I go I make new female friends.. N bcoz of my breakups..But let me again tell them I havnt ditched any girl...N dont leave old friends when make new ones..They then say this is what flirtin is...is it so??I have thought so many times..Searched dictionaries..dictionary says..Flirtin is To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures....But im still away from such things....

Im still in confusion...If any1 of u can explain me that im flirt..Please do tell me...But i will still not leave flirtin if it is actually flirtin only..Bcoz this is the way i live..N accordin to me im not doing anythin wrong...:)but will really like to know what exactly flirtin is.....

3 Mistakes Of My Life

Makin mistakes is not new to all of us..Even if its u or me or anyone else..But more important is learnin from our mistakes n more important is not repeatin them..But whats the fun in livin without makin mistakes ????

Here r few mistakes i made n still love to make many..:)

Mistake 1

                       

Never get inspired my movies like LAKSHYA or any model in MTV or channel V..U may end up lookin like this..A man thrown out of Indian Army..N prayin to get his hair back..Or his job..Bcoz we are actually not HRITIK ROSHAN n dont even have PREETI ZINTA..:)

Mistake 2

                                          

Never get inspired my movies like TAARE ZAMEEN PAR in this fashion..U may end up lookin like this..A small 10 year boy sufferin from dyslexia..N spendin his precious pocket money in buyin gels n all which he could have used to get his cellphone recharge n keep his girlfreind happy..Bcoz we are actually not AAMIR KHAN or DARSHEEL...:)

Mistake 3

                                           

Never get inspired by movies like GAJINI or Aamir's look..U may end up like this..Askin people to find longest hair on our head..People shoutin on u like hell..Ur parents not lettin u enter inside ur own home..People refusin to recognize u..People puttin label of self obsessed on u..N u dont have any other option than waitin for ur hair to grow back..But there will be few of ur friends who will really cherish u with comments like it was lookin good n somewhat like some soccer player..but its nothin like that..We really look weird in this hairdo..Bcoz we r actually not AAMIR KHAN n dont have 8 pack abs..:)